Condescension
BOSTON, April 23, 2003 -- It is striking what different meanings compliments can hold. It depends on the context. Said out of cheerful well-wishing and admiration, the phrase "Good for you!" compliments an individual on an accomplishment or a good thing in their life. It expresses that person-to-person concern and respect that we all depend on in our everyday lives. Shift the phrase slightly, to "Good for him/her," though -- and the context to impersonal, condescending commentary on a perceived inferior -- and a completely different meaning emerges.